How do I explain POTS and it's flare ups my husband
Hello I have been suffering from POTS the last 2 years and was finally able to get it diagnosed. I have been having a really hard time with it and am currently not working because I would get 1 to 2 flare ups a week that caused me to call out and they didn't like that. I'm married to my husband and have 3 wonderful step kiddos, 2 of which are autistic, that come to visit every other week.
I'm having a hard time trying to explain to my husband that my flare ups aren't from the kids but from all the up and down and chasing them around. I still have flare ups when they aren't here but I feel like he notices them less because I'm less vocal. He's very sweet and even pushed me to get my diagnosis I just don't think he understands how it works. He's also currently wheel chair bound due to a surgery so he tries to help but can only do so much.
I'm just curious if anyone has any ideas about how to explain the flare ups in a way that makes more sense then I am seeming to.
Thank you in advance