Cant stop thinking of my one night stand
I (24 F) had a one night stand with a guy ( 25 M) i met at a club. I never felt such an instant connection and chemistry to someone and we talked a lot about religion/ our lives/ careers / future plans etc before getting physical. He told me in french je t’aime bien which means i like you/ i think you’re cool .
He was also very respectful during it and was telling me i was beautiful. I really regret the way I acted cold the morning after because I was a bit insecure of how I looked so i rushed in the morning, also because that’s i guess the etiquette of a one night stand, but deep down i felt like he wanted me to stay because before i even got up he asked me est ce que tu es pressée which means do you have something / are you rushed to go do something, which my brain interpreted as he wants me to leave now.
I also acted cold because the night before we were both leaving the night club and he had to get his jacket so i asked him to give me his insta so he can text me where to meet to leave to his place but he just said i dont have instagram let’s meet at the door.
Im probably looking into the whole thing too much. But i really hate this because I did not expect to connect to the person I only wanted to hook up. I looked him up and found only his Linkedin ( obviously cant text him there )and I just think he was an interesting nice guy and I regret the whole thing