My ex dumped me because she was told I was cheating on her. She now knows she was lied to and is trying to get back together. Not happening.
We had been dating for about 6 months and things seemed to be going pretty well. We had met each other's friends and family and were in the very early stages of talking about moving in together if things kept going smoothly. Then one day a few months ago she stopped responding to my texts. After a long gap in communication I tried calling her and was sent to voicemail. Got a text telling me that one of her friends had spotted me out on a date with another woman and she was done with me. Dumped and blocked. I had never cheated on her so this caught me completely off guard.
I got a few nasty messages from a friend of hers and her sister telling me that I was a disgusting pig. Then they blocked me before I could even defend myself. Ended up taking a day off work and just sat at home and cried. I'd gone from having someone I really liked and was thinking about a future with to alone and hated by that same woman almost overnight.
She reached out to me yesterday. Let me know that she now knows I didn't cheat on her and was wondering if we could meet up and talk in person. I pushed for more info and she admitted that the friend that claimed to have seen me out with another woman was a guy who had a thing for her and made it up. Said he had a few very convincing photos that she now thinks were AI generated. He made a move on her which made her question everything and she got him to admit that he never saw me with anyone and made it all up. She apologized over and over for throwing what we had away over a lie and letting herself be manipulated like that.
I thanked her for letting me know and that I appreciated her reaching out but I'm just not interested in getting back together with her after what happened. She never even bothered to talk to me and get my side before dumping me over some AI pictures and a creep with an agenda. I can't build a relationship with someone who threw me away so quickly. Even if she was tricked.
She's been really pushing hard for me to meet up and talk it out in person but I know that won't change anything. Would most likely just be the same conversation in person and be super uncomfortable.
Anyway thank you for letting me get that off my chest.