Your Approach?
Most folks have been around the block on these apps. I used to be, took a break due to a relationship, had personal issues and then jumped in again. What really drives me nuts is the flippancy of some conversations. Like I’ll be talking to someone and then they’ll just drop off with no apparent reason. I go through the thread in my mind and nothing awry was said. But people think that because you’re not sitting right next to them that you’re disposable. There’s no social risk, fuck it, cut the cord. Is this just the result of fatigue? Personally, a few closing words on why it isn’t a match shouldn’t be too much to ask. Some people still get it, but others forget that we’re not just talking profile pictures; there’s a human on the other side. Are people just so used to the dating apps not working that they’ve become jaded? Am I just an idiot to think otherwise? This throwaway culture on these apps is toxic. How do you deal with it? Thanks for letting me ask/vent.