I used to think I was homo or wierd for being so close and open with my male friends about guy things. But then I realized it’s normal. Males get to be close like females are. Just so hard to find other dudes that think and feel the same.
I feel like anytime I end up getting close to online gaming buddies or something, they end up being really fake or wanting something from me or have hidden intentions and then cut me off after I hav clear boundaries set. Like why is it so hard to find platonic bonds with other males at 30 years old. Lol. I’m a huge gamer. So it’s just how I make a lot of my friends. I’ve even traveled to meet some after building trust like normal human beings. But some just expect you to drop everything for them asap I guess.
Just curious if other dudes try to make friends online too or like do you do it more at your place of work? A cool? Randomly in life? Intentionally? I’m curious. Like I can’t genuinely find other dudes who wanna connect on an emotional and intellectual level mutually. So dumb man.