u/Desprived

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I straight up dont know what to do. I used to be someone so full of life and loved doing anything and everything. I used to climb, snowboard, hike, backpack, paint, make jewelry, etc. etc. I was always out exploring. I broke my wrist snowboarding in January and had to get surgery, which put a halt on pretty much everything. I'm completely healed now and slowly gotten back into climbing, painting and other old hobbies.

It just doesn't feel the same and i'm so lost and unmotivated. I have no friends, I fucking hate my job, and I don't do anything. I have a boyfriend that I love but he works blue collar so he doesn't want to do anything active with me after how hard work has been on him. we just lay in bed and do nothing and I am absolutely losing myself. I don't think its necessarily my wrist that caused all of this, or my boyfriend. But i'm pretty miserable. All I do is sleep now. I oversleep like hell (12+ hours a night) and then will nap for hours on end during the day. I'm so miserable and I don't do anything. I just need some advice or someones opinion on how to fix this. I have a really hard time making friends and i'm just getting myself into this horrible spiral. I miss my life with adventure. i'm so lonely.

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u/Desprived — 9 days ago