u/DesperateSide385

So I was with this guy for a year he was my senior in clg at that time I was like in a really bad phase of my life and after he came into my life things got better and im the kind of person who doesnt care about anyone and I fell in love with him he took good care I mean he was like old minded and toxic and shit but I was happy I will keep this short but after exactly one month he ghosted me I begged him for 9 months to talk to me I went to his home planned his birthday party with his family gave him many gifts and everything but the whole day he didnt even look at me properly and this is the same man who made me cry on my birthday for some silly ass reason I cried so much in my class that the lecturer stopped teaching came upto me and asked me if I was okay so back to the point after that from Christmas I stopped talking to him I was hurt really hurt but at that point I got used to it because even when I was with him I used to cry everyday so yeah after a few months I got to know that this guy had sex with his ex when he was with me and created a different snap account and kept on texting her when I asked him about his ex when we were together he just told me that it was a causal relationship and ntg serious but the truth was that he was with her from like 6th grade and they did everything and I really dont know how to feel or how to react and if im being completely honest I feel guilty for hurting that girl rather than being hurt that he cheated on me cause that girl tried to warn me and I didnt believe her....

Me and my friend were going home in rtc , we were standing and talking about our college. Then an elderly uncle came and sat right beside us . Soo he heard us talking abt college and stuff and asked us which college we're from and we didn't think much of it. We answered his questions politely, he told us he's a ai/ds ka major and apparently got a job offer from our university and he rejected it. He has a son and a daughter. Both are software engineers. The friend who was with talked about it's difficult to get jobs and stuff. My friend started ignoring him (who is a guy) and I didn't wanna be rude so I was listening to him and replying. Then he looked at my friend and started talking about how it's his responsibility to get a job cause he's a man and how I have another way out and how I can get married . I was offended and I replied by saying it's just as important as that I get a job just like any other man . Bro i was like " just cause I'm a women doesn't mean I have a way out , how can I depend on a random ass stranger? Even i need to stand on my own feet and become independent " . He was shocked and was smirking then he again started talking about how it was more important for a man to get a job and shit and then asked us what our goals were I told him that I want to become a fighter pilot ( I am a defence aspirant) and then he legit put his had to his mouth and was shocked and acted as if I told him that I am from some other planet the amount of anger rage and wtnot I controlled and then he asked my why I chose btech I told him that there is ncc in my uni and then he went on and on about how he was in ncc and then the snacks that they gave him after ncc fall ins ruined his teeth he has retainers of some sort and dude legit went on and removed them and started showing them to us I turned away as i was legit disgusted DISGUSTED by him his behavior and his words dude then calls me and then again removes his teeth and shows it to me at that point me and my frnd both of us wanted to get out of that bus and we almost reached our stop so we were quiet and didnt want to engage in any sort of convo with him and then he calls us and says how women today are too fast then he tells how his son got a match and the girl said that she didnt want to have kids until a particular age and again he made that same face . He then proceeds by saying what is the point of marriage if you dont have kids at this point I was enraged and I snapped by saying its her choice who are you to tell her otherwise and then he agrees and says what will the society say about that and I was like who cares what the society says it's her life and then he says that you have to live according to the society and shit after that we just got down and he was legit forcing us to stay on the bus and was trying to make a conversation....

Because of ppl like this only India is still like this I feel so sorry for his kids..