I’m 29 (M) and feeling stuck about marriage and life decisions.
I’ve never been in a relationship before. After finishing +2 (high school), I didn’t continue my studies and started working instead. Right now, I earn around 20–25k per month. It’s enough to get by, but not something I feel very confident about when thinking long-term.
Lately, there’s been a lot of pressure from my family to get married. Honestly, at this point, I also feel like I want a wife and companionship. But I don’t even know where to start. I’ve never dated, never approached anyone like that, and I don’t have much social circle either.
I’m confused about a few things:
- Is it okay to think about marriage when I’m not fully stable yet?
- How do people like me even find someone for marriage?
- Should I focus on improving my career first or start looking for a partner now?
Sometimes it feels overwhelming because I don’t want to rush into something just because of pressure, but I also don’t want to stay alone forever.
Would really appreciate honest advice from people who’ve been in a similar situation. How did you figure things out?