Im 22F and I barely have any guy friends. Im visiting a foreign country and went to an event about 5 days ago where i met a few people including this one local guy 28M. We met once more about 2 days ago in a group setting and i really clicked with him. I did get the impression that he was coming on to me at times but I’m not sure if that’s actually what it was
Anyways, that night he kept sending me reels on IG of different spots in the city to visit for tourists (maybe about 5?) and i sent him 2 funny reels. I also asked him if he wanted to join in on plans we made with a mutual friend on the weekend and he said he was busy.
The next day, the plans we made got pushed back to be on a weekday instead so i let him know of the change and said “ik you work but thought id let u know” and he left it on seen. I drove myself insane. I’ve been thinking all day about how he probably thinks im into him for asking, that i sound desperate, that he actually was bored all day we hung out and it was just me who was having fun and thinking we vibed. Why couldn’t he at least say “yeah i can’t meet on a weekday but we could meet on x day or at x time instead”? does him not offering another time to meet mean he doesn’t wanna see me before i leave back to my country?
He then proceeded to send me a reel that was utterly unfunny and cringe approx 20 hrs after leaving my message on seen…i reacted w laughing emoji to the reel anyways and sent another one myself that he again, LEFT ON SEEN. He has been viewing my stories immedietly for the past few days and he just opened the message, LEFT IT ON SEEN NO REACTION NO NOTHING AND DIDNT EVEN WATCH MY STORY..
Im really upset and i feel pathetic and like I have to beg for friendship. Is this normal for guys?? does it mean anything that i was left on seen or am i reading into it too much? why didn’t he view my story or respond this time? is he sick of me..why didn’t he ask to meet another time knowing damn well i’m leaving in just a few days to my country..? is it safe to assume he doesn’t care and doesn’t want to see me again before i leave? :(