My dad put me on a beneficiary plan to make me grow to a business man but wants me to go a certain way and marry a woman I use to date. Im real disrespected with the A.I. tools they use to pressure me in to a choice. I feel when my point comes across more well put, I just got to go by the Account Holder way of view. Im 35 years old and I feel violated that the plan for me to marry my ex is already in effect and I have to act like a kid and go threw with it. I know what I'm capable of and I know I'm not ready to settle down. I still want to find love the way I didn't have with my ex. I also feel like the story's they tell me with there business tools like making me feel bad with stuff like no real man would leave their ex with the excitement she has now knowing she's going to be with a business man that she was once in love with. Seems real Unorganized and I feel like im getting played for a fool. Somewhat a kid. Like if I'm able to go to prison at this age I should be treated and respected like the adult I've been. There just making bigger problems with me and more family trauma as well. For this I think you should think twice about being in a beneficiary plan with your parents, its not as kicked up as it seems it is. Now I have to find a lawyer to get me out this plan including keeping it a secret from my younger family that are in the plan aswell. Since I'm the highest in the plan I have to follow every single thing they want. F××c% that. I know there probably a way to leave me ex with no excuse but with the pain and suffering they put on my brain and heart can damn near cause me a heart attack. There just secrets and little fairy tales that been going for as long as I know about 10 years. Im fed up with it.
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u/Designer_Green_283 — 15 days ago