I want to give my Vault to my Wife. Need Suggestions.
I'm new to Obsidian and Reddit also. please tell me the solution for this (English is not my first language, so ignore mistakes.)
So, okay I'll tell you the situation here. I downloaded obsidian a few weeks ago and I am putting efforts into it, I've created a lot of notes. The main reason of me writing and using obsidian is to organize my information and documenting my life. You can say that everything that comes to my mind and everything that happened with me or will happen, I'll write it in my obsidian vault. And after my death, I want My Vault to be published so that everyone can know the true me and if anyone ever took interest in my life, they can easily read my whole life. Or if any stranger wants to know, so they too can read it.
But that's not the main reason, I want that in future If I met someone, I'll be able to give them my vault and let them know about my whole life. For Now I can only thought of my wife (I'm unmarried). I want to give my vault to her so that she can understand my life and can understand me very easily. I've a lot of philosophical ideologies that I'll want to tell her.
And I would like to tell you that I'm a open person, and I think that if there are no secrets between two persons, then there'll be no fight between them. they can able to understand each other. But isn't it'll be weird that in future my wife will read about my past relationships, and school love stories. I don't mind telling those stories myself to her, but it's kinda weird that I used to love someone else before her.
I though about it a lot, I though that I'm open person, So I'll tell her everything. But then I remember that female phycology is different than man phycology, and they can get emotional very easily. And other than that, I've a lot of deep secrets and truama's that I don't want to tell anybody. So I'm asking you guys what will I do? Should I create two vaults? but then I've to copy paste everything, and I'll have two same vaults with just small diffrence.
I have Few questions:
will it be a good idea to tell her everything?
Should I write everything in one single vault and give it to her?
Should I make two vaults, one for her and one for Everything. (I really don't want the headach of two vaults and copy pasting like 99% of the thing.)
So what could I do?