u/Dependent_Educator20

May incident akong nabasa about sa 2 yrs old na nilapa ng mga aso sa labas ng bahay nila and unfortunately, hindi sya nagsurvive dahil sa injuries. All the comments were blaming the lgu for poor implementation of impounding of stray dogs as well as irresponsible dog owners.

Ako naman nagcomment na as parents, hindi sana papabayaan ang 2-yrs old sa labas ng bahay na walang kasama. And lo, I was severely bashed for it. As a parent myself, nasa stage ng 2 yrs old na napaka gaslaw and hyper so need talaga matutukan.

Some of the comments were defending the parents kase nasa labas lang naman daw ng bahay so assured siguro yung parents daw na safe ang bata. For me, kung may gate siguro baka pwede pa pero if open space lang yung labas ng bahay, I highly doubt na safe. Another comment said that hindi daw masisisi yung parents if working kase naghahanap buhay naman daw, and dapat daw sisihin yung may ari ng aso na pabaya.

As much as I agree that dog owners should be responsible, personally mas sisisihin ba dapat yung mga aso na just acting on instinct or yung irresponsible parents na napabayaan yung anak which led to that tragic incident? So ABYG?

Dahil sa pabago bagong curriculum ng deped, I’m considering na mag apply abroad and resign. Parang hindi na worth it yung stress and workload. Sa mga nag abroad na teachers, where are you now? I discovered maraming hiring sa middle east like uae and dubai pero hindi ba delikado?

Please suggest songs about letting someone be free for him to fulfill his dreams and hoping that someday he’ll realize the other person’s worth.

Sample songs:

Without me by Halsey

Patawad Paalam by Moira and I belong to the zoo

Somewhere down the road covered by Nina

My husband was not able to find a job here in our city so nakipagsapalaran siya sa Metro Manila to find greener pasture then eventually, the plan is susunod kami for our family to be together. Unfortunately, he had been switching jobs for the past years and hindi pa siya nakakahanap ng work na permanent.

In my case, I’m a public school teacher and kahit hindi ganun kalakihan ang sweldo dahil sa mga loans, I still have security of tenure and the benefits. Ilang beses ko na siyang kinausap na dito nalang siya and magtayo ng sarili niyang business where he can look out for our child at the same time pero ayaw niya. I don’t know if it’s out of his pride as a man pero ang hirap niyang makipagcommunicate and ayaw niya talagang bumalik saamin for good.

Our situation severely affected my mental health kase parang naging single mom yung dating ko wherein uuwi si husband once in a while lang. Wala akong nearby parents or siblings so ako lang talaga. Ang nakakastress is yung paghahanap ng yaya where due to some reasons bigla nalang uuwi sa kanila. Minsan I need to bring my son to work and because of it so pati trabaho ko naaapektuhan.

Another thing is yung financial aspect. I rarely share this to anyone to protect him but despite his sacrifice to be away from his family, hindi rin naman kalakihan yung income nya and minsan nahuhuli pa yung sweldo. So imbes na dapat he should be the main breadwinner and yung income ko parang backup nalang, feeling ko akin na lahat from tending to my child and provide for him. Then si husband parang backup nalang yung income since late nga dumating.

Now, nakahanap si hubby ng work sa ibang province pero nasa Luzon pa rin. Mag o-one year na sya dun. We recently went there last holy week and mababa lang yung cost of living. However, contract of service na naman yung status ni husband. Gusto ni husband na dun nalang daw ako magwork and meron daw school dun na willing ako tanggapin for contract of service and high chance daw na maregular ako next year.

As much as I want our family to be together, ang hirap ilet go yung permanent job for a contract of service especially in this economy. What if hindi kami marenew? Anong mangyayari sa anak namin now that he’s already close to school age?

I think if I accept his offer for the sake of our family and mangyari yung worst case scenario na dalawa kaming mawalan ng trabaho, I will forever resent him.