Sawi agad-agad 😅 It was my first time trying FB Dating and may naka-match ako agad. I am 32F and he's 36M. We both waved to each other then kakaiba intro niya.
This is what he said "Hey _! Hear me out - let's get good food delivered, have you in my arms as we talk about life, we spend minutes trying to look for a good netflix film/series, then lambing. Deal?"
At first, I thought it's more of a virtual date lol kaya napa-reply ako ng "sounds good" the next day. He then asked when can I go. I find it weird na ang bilis mag-aya without knowing me through convos first. So before responding I did some bg check kasi his name is unique. Okay naman yung nakita ko about him and looks like he's doing good in his professional career etc. And I think we're kind of in the same industry kasi naka-work ko rin yung creators that he got in touch before sa past work niya.
I then replied about my availability and that I suggested if we can meet muna in public like coffee. He replied "Coffee then vibe check then lambing?" to which I responded "Okay, let's see the vibe first... etc"
He then commented na perfect yung Thursday night (which is actually tonight). Then he asked if saan ako manggaling. Our locations are near din so that's okay with me. He replied nga na "Oh perfect" din daw. Tapos tinanong niya na ko if I have tg and ig. Told him my tg nalang muna since ayoko muna ibigay personal account ko sa ig. Then hindi na siya nagreply. So I tried to wait pa rin since baka busy siya. Then yesterday, I checked uli and no message from him still (even on tg) so I initiated to send a message asking for the time of our meet sana tonight. And then I told him already my ig kasi baka kala niya poser ako lmao.
Buong araw today I've been trying to not check the apps haha sa sobrang anxious ko na. And I calmed myself nalang na ay hindi na yan magrereply so wag na ako mag-ayos etc. At yon nga I braved to check all the apps and there's deafening silence. Ang dali ko kasi ma-attach lalo na na-bg check ko siya haha! Kala ko may hope but ghosted moment pala.
TBH I'm not used to this setup na meetup with stranger then may lambing pa na ganyan but I tried to check baka may compatibility since he's also in his 30s na.
I would appreciate if he messaged na hindi na matutuloy or kung anuman para di na ako mag-expect kasi I invested my time na rin (kahit na ilang days palang) na-f up na yung emotions ko agad kahit na kakabalik ko lang sa online dating hahaha. Looks like I'll be deactivating na uli LOL why is it soooo hard to look for genuine connection!!