Hi there, I have a scenario for the forum to have a look based on a recent true story.
I am a Libra (1st decan) sun, Aquarius moon, Scorpio rising man. My SO is an Aries (3rd decan) sun, Libra moon, Pisces rising man. Yes, gay relationship.
We first met a few months ago and the sparks and chemistry were good. We kept in touch and had been chatting via video call for a few months then decided to have a trip together. The trip went well without any issue and we went back to our respective hometowns.
After the trip we had video call and I told him the trip was amazing and looking forward for another trip. He, on the other hand, told me list of things that I did during the trip that he dislike and had him question about the viability of the relationship. He told me I did not show enough romantic gestures, it had always been him to initiate kisses, touches, hugs, etc. I was stunned since we have the opposite perception of the trip.
We went silent for a while then he reached out to me. We reconciled, I tried being more romantic and flirty with him then he brought up the same conversation again citing that I was very different from how he idealized me since we first met and not sure about being in a serious relationship. This time I felt tired and think I was done so we have not been talking so far.
For me, he has a starting score that keep rising over the time we spent together. For him, I got 100 score in the beginning and got substracted along the way and now it was below passing score.
Can this scenario be explained by the signs we have? It looks great on paper in terms of compatibility and I though we got along pretty well during the trip.
It really hurt me and it is difficult to move on.
Thank you for your time 🙏🏻