u/DependentBrilliant92

Feel like I’m doing a bad job

I don’t really do much at the moment. My baby is 9 weeks old

We go for walks with the dog, food shopping etc but I haven’t been to any classes or anything.

I feel like every mum from my antenatal and other mums I bump into are all attending Everyman cinema baby club, Pilates with their babies, baby massage classes.

  1. I can’t really afford these things. They’re pretty expensive
  2. even if I was flush for cash, I’m not sure I’d want to

I wasn’t the most social before having a baby. I find it hard to talk to new people as I suffer with social angst quite badly.

I just feel like I’m not doing enough for my baby.

I’ve bought loads of cool sensory stuff and I sort of do my own sensory classes at home with him. But that’s all.

Just kinda want to hear that I’m not the only mum who doesn’t do all these extravagant things

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