u/DependentAddition399

A few days ago, I posted about my cat Tilly and how she’d been diagnosed with cancer. (Also wanted to say how lovely all of you are on this page and how much I’ve appreciated your kind words and support, it has brought me to tears!!) She was extremely frail and I really didn’t think she would survive the week. She is 16 and I’ve had her since I was 9 years old. I’ve been living away from home and I know that when I’m gone, she hates it. She sits outside my bedroom door and waits for me and she’s not very affectionate to anyone else in my family. It’s always just been her and I who have a special bond, which made this news so much more painful. I moved home this week after going through a break up and after spending 5 days together, I cannot explain the positive turn she has taken. She’s eating her food again and she’s actually gained weight!!! From sitting by herself in the corner, she’s now sleeping in bed with me again and purring and she’s acting like her old self. I truly believe she knew I needed her and she’s given me the privilege of some more time with her while I adjust to my circumstances at the moment. We need each other and I really do think that having me around is helping her too. I know that the diagnosis is still bad and that our time together still may be limited, but just to see her back on such good form is such an enormous pleasure for me. Just wanted to share the news! ☺️

u/DependentAddition399 — 7 days ago

My cat is 16 years old and was diagnosed with cancer yesterday. Her health hasn’t been great for the last year or so, but was manageable and she was still very happy within herself. Her and I have always had such a strong bond (I got her when I was 9 years old) and for most nights, she has always slept beside me. Whether it be on my pillow, or curled up in my arms or on top of me. We always slept together. She lives with my parents and for the last month I haven’t been home. I returned back yesterday after finding out the news and I can see how much she’s deteriorated. I am in pieces and crying constantly. She is so thin and frail and I can tell she’s not got very long left. I’m trying to shower her with all the love I can and she’s been purring, but she doesn’t want to sleep with me as she always does. She’s just staying in the corner of my bedroom on her own. I tried moving her onto my bed but she just went back to where she had been before. It is absolutely breaking my heart to see how much she is not herself and I know it might be a matter of time that I still have her with me.

I know that everybody loves their cats, but I truly do not know what I am going to do without her. She is everything to me. I have a bond with her like nothing else. I talk to her and she meows back to me. She follows me around like a shadow. She sits in the bathroom and watches me while I do my makeup in the morning. She is just such a part of me. I am so distraught and now not having her sleep beside me is making me think that this is it. She has never ever not wanted to sleep with me. To the point that sometimes I’ve had to be the one to take her off me if I’ve woken up and she’s kneading my head or something.

Sorry that I’m rambling but I’m crying writing this because I just feel so so sad

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u/DependentAddition399 — 10 days ago
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I’ve just found out that my cat has a tumour in her stomach. She’s not been in the best health for a little while now, but it had previously been due to her hyperthyroidism so it was always manageable. I am so devastated by this news I don’t know what to do with myself. I have had Tilly since I was 9 and I am now 26. She has been there through everything with me. Moving homes, schools, losing family members over the years. She has watched me grow up and I can’t even imagine not having her in my life. I know that I have a small amount of time left with her which I’m extremely grateful for, and I am actually moving back home today, so the timing is pretty amazing as I will get to spend as much time with her as I can now. But I just feel so heartbroken.

She is my best friend.

u/DependentAddition399 — 12 days ago

I am just coming on here for some support. I am absolutely heartbroken. I’ve had my cat since I was nine years old. I’m now 26. She has been my best friend through absolutely everything. Over the years, we’ve moved houses and schools and in times I’ve needed her the most she has always been with me. She’s met every family member who’s no longer with us. She’s slept with me every night. She feels like the one piece of me that’s been a constant. I just can’t imagine my life without her and it hurts so much. I just wanted to hear from anyone who has been through this as I am so devastated, I haven’t stopped crying.

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u/DependentAddition399 — 12 days ago