u/Dependent-Strain-415

I’ve been seeing a guy for a few weeks (5 dates). Didn’t have firm plans for this weekend as we both had things on and was going to see how our time panned out. I got sick in the middle of the week with a nasty cold and despite me saying I’m ill this weekend and staying home, he has made suggestions to meet up Friday, yesterday and today with today’s ‘relaxing’ idea requiring me to drive 30 miles each way! I want to say for the love of god man what is it about I’m ill and staying home that you don’t understand? But I don’t want to be horrible and maybe I should be flattered he’s keen, but it’s kind of pressuring. Any ideas how to address this? Im erring on just going back to bed and not responding for hours 🤣