There is a 14 to 15-year age gap between me and my siblings. My brother is 33, my sister is 32, and I am 18. Because of this massive gap, my parents essentially raised two separate generations. My parents' primary alliance is with my 33-year-old brother. A cousin actually warned me a year ago: "You need to build your own life. Your parents will settle with your elder brother." I am now seeing the reality of that warning
My brother and parents refuse to give me even small amounts of money (like ₹500) for basic self-improvement-things like a gym membership, books, or occasional hangouts. They view this as "luxury" rather than a basic investment.
Whenever I sit calmly and ask for money, they hit me with stories about how much they struggled when they were young and how my elder brother had to struggle. If I try to ask my dad for money directly, my mom immediately intercepts and shuts it down before he can even answer. She enforces the rule that I must suffer because my brother suffered.
My elder brother actively avoids me when hanging out with the older cousins' group, essentially cutting me out of the wider family loop.
I made this post with the help of Ai because my English is not that good
and 1 month ago I was in my grandmother house and my cousin sister told me that i born unexpected and my dad brother wife also told that no one thought about you and suddenly my mom become pregnant and the cousin said everyone said abort me and my parents refused to abort me and i don't know why nothing said after that and grandmother secretly said to her while I was not seeing why you said that to him I don't know you understand above paragraph wdy think