Recently, the past few years, I’ve been attracting air signs in my life. Especially when I’m in my comfortable, social self which I’m guessing my Gemini rising attracts these social air signs in my life. The downside is, once I fully get to know these guys and vice versa, I will need stability and emotional depth most air signs don’t really enjoy being in.. I think it’s my Cancer that requires this emotional safety and stability. I’ve had 2 Aquarius men and it hasn’t been the best experience. One was abusive and one is hyper-independent and avoidant even tho he’s significantly nicer than the other (but he has Gemini moon). So he shuts down or runs away when signs of conflict starts coming up. I had a great time with a Libra man with also Gemini moon, but idek.
I’m just getting tired of getting myself involved with Air signs with double or more air in their chart and it not working out when I start needing emotional comfort.
Though I admit they’re absolute fun and I enjoy the intellectual and witty conversations I can have with them but my poor emotional side also needs support and shouldn’t be ignored. I feel my best self when I can care and be cared for but my freedom and intellectual needs is also important, so I can’t be suffocated. I feel like a walking contradiction but I don’t think it’s impossible to meet someone that could understand me deeply, as I do for them :(
What signs should I even look for? I try staying open minded regardless of the signs, but the fact I keep attracting air signs and the dynamic is often unstable, makes me wonder what I’m doin* wrong or should improve :/