My (27F) partner (29M) says he feels disconnect between us while I'm in luteal phase but doesn't do anything about it
I don't know what to do. I've tried to express to him that I have PMDD and I know it's not an excuse, but i struggle with feelings of detachment not only with him but with myself and it makes living harder. We've been together since last April. I take 25mg of sertaline since last december which has helped a lot but its still difficult. I feel as though, he prioritises his feelings over mine during these times and fails to recognise me and what im going through. I know this because he only says he feels disconnect while im in my luteal phase. I guess this is a rant but a part of me thinks this is quite selfish of him, or maybe him being slightly unreasonable to expect me to try to be present when he knows i struggle with this. What do you guys think? Am i wrong for wanting him to show me more care and attentiveness during this time?