u/DedInside_6

I’m talking about non-secure attachment, h/o unaddressed childhood trauma, numbing behaviors, etc. I could go on.

All the more frustrating is that it seems if you’re happily set in your ways in your 40s and 5Os and don’t have a strong personal reason to confront your issues, you ain’t gonna change.

(51m. Post divorce after 20 year marriage. Feel like a different person after the years of self reflection due to trying to make marriage work and repair myself.)