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I 22F living with my relatives in ktm. So when I first came to ktm ma hostel ma bastheye. I lived in that hostel for 4 5 months it was pretty good. Ani bich ma malai sancho nabhayera few days lai ma mero relatives ko ma gaye(jasko ma aile basirako chu). Ani aunty ko ma jada they said "hami ni girls hostel kholiracham timi ni hostel nai basirachau bahira basna bhanda hamrai ma basa afno manche ko ma sajilo huncha." And I thought okay cha ta. Afno manche ko ma sajilo huncha and ma pagal bhayera ramro hostel chadera basey. Ani free ma basna hunna aru ko ma bhanera my parents paid 10k to them every month(they still are).
Ani suru suru ma thikai theyo pachi hostel banda bhayo ani I was thikai cha aba basisakem bachelor samma basam.
Ani bistarai kura haru bigrinna thalyo. I was a student. Woke up early, went to college, came back, i was so tired and couldn't help them in the kitchen. Assignment ni hunthyo. Tespachi they gossiped ghar ko kaam ni gardaina MAHARANI. maile patience dekhaye Ani aile after 4 years I try to tolerate jaile. Try not to speak. When I can't keep up with their expectations they come up with sanskar ko kura haru. Ani when my dad send them money ali dheela they mock me saying fine launa paryo kya ho. Its always about my character and sanskar.
I tried to talk to my fam and said "jata ni paisa tirne nai ho bhane why not stay at better place" and they are like achanak chhodna bhanda baru bachelor sakera jana ni sajilo huncha and I agreed.
Ani aaja chai k bhayo bhanda mero pant kinna theyo plus aru kaam ni theyo. I left around 3:30 and told them I will be back by evening. They said ok. When I got home by 5:30 knocked the door,Noone responded I thought they are out and took out store room ko key,opened the door and looked for mathi ko gate ko chabi. I searched didn't find. Called aunty and said " i guess you are not home. Im looking for keys where are the keys?" Store room ko euta spare key masanga huncha because whoever is out chabi teta rakhne so arko manche lai sajilo hos. And she said" yeah we are out for shopping we will be late. You roam around. We will be back." And I said" bahira jane plus time lagne bhaye you should have either called me or kept the keys store room ma" And she said" but you should have called while returning." We had discussion. I added" ma agadhi niskeko ho ghar bata and I clearly told you that I will be back by evening so why wouldn't you just call me or keep the key and what will I do roaming around for hours?" She said im talking back and have no manners. Ani maile rati huncha hola ma eklai k garnu kata janu. Chabi dina aauna paryo bhaneko. They agreed but added "Timile garda hamro plan bigriyo" I didn't say anything and went to my room. Its almost 9 pm and they are still out. If I agreed to roam around maybe I would still be roaming around RN. And god knows till when.
This is only one of these kinda incidents. There are a lot. I was really frustrated today so I thought to rant. Maybe im wrong or idk.
P.S: my fam finally agreed to move out and I will be out soon. So till then I want to avoid arguments as much as I can.