u/Deathofamystic

Hey I’ve had a lot of lesbian experiences and women show interest in me throughout my life. However, it was always pre puberty and people always assumed my sexuality without me getting to know and it bothered me. I just got out of a 7 year relationship with a man. I honestly think sex with men is easy A plugs into B. But the actual emotional and relationship part of it is mid tbh. I’m Demi so I have to have an emotional connection to be physical. I wonder what it would be like with a woman but I am so petrified I won’t be able to satisfy a woman and I feel like I’d have a panic attack! I wonder if I just need a deep emotional connection to break that barrier. But I also feel terrified of being in a relationship where I am understood emotionally and so deeply??? I’m 25 years old and feel so ashamed I have no experience and I would hate to put a beautiful sexy hot lesbian in that position with a noobie or potentially could be ass in the bedroom :/ Any advice or thoughts???