u/Davidluiswriter

Men, You can be:

lost at 22

broke at 25

start over at 28

glow and rise at 32

have an amazing family at 35

Trust the process. You’re not behind.

You’re still becoming. Greatness is never rushed.

Hello buddies,I'm requesting an upvote so that I can raise my karma

I sat with my friends every weekend, and the plan was always the same—buy alcohol, laugh loudly, and forget our problems for a few hours. They always had money for drinks and endless excuses for why life wasn’t working out. Whenever I asked them about their goals or how they planned to improve themselves, the conversation quickly changed. Some would joke about it, others would say life is too hard to think that far.

One night, as I watched them raise another bottle, I realized we were slowly wasting valuable time. I asked them, “What happens when the fun ends and reality catches up with us?” Silence filled the room, but no one had a real answer.

I care about my friends, but I’m worried we’re normalizing habits that hold us back. How do I encourage them to think about growth and better choices without sounding judgmental or losing the friendship?

I sat with my friends every weekend, and the plan was always the same—buy alcohol, laugh loudly, and forget our problems for a few hours. They always had money for drinks and endless excuses for why life wasn’t working out. Whenever I asked them about their goals or how they planned to improve themselves, the conversation quickly changed. Some would joke about it, others would say life is too hard to think that far.

One night, as I watched them raise another bottle, I realized we were slowly wasting valuable time. I asked them, “What happens when the fun ends and reality catches up with us?” Silence filled the room, but no one had a real answer.

I care about my friends, but I’m worried we’re normalizing habits that hold us back. How do I encourage them to think about growth and better choices without sounding judgmental or losing the friendship?

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