My partner and I are in an LDR.
Last night he told me he’s going to watch a movie with a female friend… a female friend I’ve never even heard of before.
They’ll be sitting in the car together, he’s driving her, then watching a movie together while I’m miles away.
I’m trying to figure out if I’m overthinking or if this would genuinely hurt/bother other people too?
I have a 19 year old cousin sister and right now my whole family feels like it is living inside some dramatic movie.
We went to our village recently and that is where this 26 year old lawyer saw her once and that was it. Now he is telling his family he wants to marry her. He keeps saying he has earned around 15 crores on his own, owns 4 flats in a tier 1 city, has 4 cars and multiple maids. The way he talks, it is like money means nothing to him anymore.
His exact vibe was what will I even do with so much money, I did not like any girls who came through rishtas, I want this one only. All this after basically one proper interaction.
Now my cousin is 19, still in 12th class, and very poor in studies. She is not naive or innocent either. She has always been very social and has had a pattern of talking to much older guys. When she was around 16 she was even video calling a man almost twice her age who was married and working in an office. There have been multiple situations like that over the years with older men.
So it is not like she is some sheltered kid who does not understand attention or relationships. But suddenly now everything is being presented like a perfect match because this guy is rich and ready to marry.
My whole family is completely sold. Just impressed by the money, the lifestyle, the image. They have already started kundali matching and are planning to get them married this year itself.
Meanwhile this guy keeps casually dropping lines about how he has too much money and just wants someone he likes, which honestly sounds straight out of a movie.
This whole thing went from one random village meeting to almost fixing a marriage in no time.
I genuinely cannot tell what is more concerning. The speed of everything, the fact that no one is verifying anything he is claiming, or how easily everyone is ignoring past patterns and just focusing on money.
It feels like either this is some unbelievable rishta or a huge red flag situation that everyone is choosing to ignore. And I am just watching it all happen thinking this cannot be real.