u/CustardNo9707

after reading this amazing analysis of aria i recommend you all read cause its so good, i don't understand how aria didn't take one extra curricular. like she's shown to be an outsider and not very interested in that type of stuff her friends are anyway so maybe its true, but not even art club for one semester? like she did that pottery class so obv she wants to do some creative things outside of school. i don't see her doing more than one extra curricular but taking one art or english club makes sense.

also making this so ezra focused does not make sense to me either. like its been known that she can do stuff outside of school that isn't all about him. i mean god the a stuff isn't all about him, you can count on one hand how much that man has been part of the a storyline. i truly think they just wanted a reason to break them up and apparently andrew wasn't enough? also, wouldn't hanna have not joined any clubs as well? like she seemed less interested in academics than aria did. yes, she had that stint in yearbook but based on what we know that didn't even last a season. so, i say again, why did they make this so ezra focused when it definitely wasn't.

anyway, this storyline doesn't make sense to me (esp with that analysis giving me a new found perspective on aria) and aria would've done something even if it was only for a short time.

edit: god please read the post i linked. aria is not male/ezra focused, the fandom is when they talk about her. she has her own hyperfixations that don't just revolve around ezra. and, yes, i understand the point of the scene i just don't agree with it.

u/CustardNo9707 — 11 days ago

listen, i love emaya and i have soft spots for my non-canon ships like arison, spanna, vandermarin and ashleyella, but does anyone rly care about the ships that much?

when i watched the show as a kid (i was 9) ships like emaya, haleb and (unfortunately) ezria were my obsession. but now i feel like i go to the show for the friendships and the mystery way more. the show at a certain point defiantly tried to be a ship show (*cough* seasons 6 and 7 *cough*) so i just wanted to know if anyone else hates that.

i'd also love to know what ur ships are (if u have any) and if u have any non-canon ships like i do cause thats always fun!

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u/CustardNo9707 — 14 days ago

like the photo's of aria sleeping. he was part of the n.a.t. club and blaming it on his sister is a good excuse but completely ooc for her. hate how this was used as a romantic thing for jaria (a pedo relationship in case anyone forgot), like even if he was the same age as her that's still so fucking weird.

also, he was gonna have them framed? like imagine if someone came up to you on the street and said, "i have a gift for you" and its photo's of u sleeping. like i'd call the police on that person, tf? just creepy as hell.

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u/CustardNo9707 — 15 days ago

so my parents just paid for the cap and gown and im so fucking done. when my parents brought up graduation over the years ive always told them i don't wanna do it and they told me i have to for them.

a few months ago i finally explained why it gives me so much anxiety. when i was in primary school the first time i ever took a risk and performed on stage all the kids in my school made fun of me (not the first time) and made me feel like shit. my parents just told me that going up on the graduation stage is a fuck you. i gave up then.

I've been having daydreams about it. i feel like im just gonna break down crying on the day or run away. the idea makes me feel so triggered and unsafe.

today when we were buying the stuff my mum asked me what kind of photo i would like to give other people. I DON'T WANT TO DO IT!

im thinking about putting myself into rehab in may so im probs not gonna be there anyway. and yes i know it's bad for my parents to pay for it when im probs not gonna be there but i cannot tell my parents why. when i have before they basically just ignored it and pretended it isn't happening so what's the point.

am i the asshole?

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u/CustardNo9707 — 15 days ago