Hey everyone! Male nurse here. I’m looking for some advice and insights. I’m currently in a new grad residency on a med-surg/tele unit. I’ve learned a lot, and my night crew is like a supportive fraternity—super helpful people. That said, the unit is heavy. I’ve only been on my own for about 8 months, and I’ve already been made charge nurse. While my manager says I’d be a great leader, it felt a bit unfair, and I still feel like an imposter. I ask a ton of questions daily.
While peers are supportive, management feels disconnected—like they don’t truly know or care about the team individually. I think they assume I’ll be here long-term, but I’m already planning my exit. My residency ends at the end of summer, so I’m thinking about next steps.
I’m seeking a day shift, less stressful role. I’m open to less acute areas, outpatient, and I’m not worried about a pay cut. I’ve always had an interest in behavioral health/psych, but I’m open to almost anything that provides a better balance.
Some coworkers who work at other hospitals have said that, ironically, our unit is actually “better” in terms of resources and staffing compared to some other med-surg floors they’ve seen. So, I’m aware that making a switch could come with trade-offs, and I might end up with less favorable ratios or resources elsewhere. But I still feel like I need something less taxing.
For those who’ve made a similar move—what did you switch into, and how was the transition? Also, when should I start looking? I plan on giving 3–4 weeks’ notice. I’d really appreciate your insights—thanks in advance!