u/Cultural_teal

Hi~

I am a Malay Ex-muslim. Now I am a spiritual person and a humanist. The reason I want to move out is bcus Syariah law in Malaysia is getting stricter. I do not want my children trapped in this system like me.

Currently, I am living in Johor. I am bonded with my company for 5 years and it will end in mid 2031. I'm looking for someone who is willing to build a family and stay in Johor for 5 years until my work bond ends.

My Life Vision and Plan:

Age 29-30

We can get to know each other. If we are comfortable with each other and our life value alligns, then let's get married! 🤭

Age 31:

Let's make our first baby 👩‍🍼 hehe 😚 Since I am still working, I will only cook for us 3 days in a week. Let's eat outside and explore the food at least once a week 😁

Age 32-34

I'm still working with the company so we might have to hire a personal baby sitter or send our baby (or babies hihii) to a nursery with high standard. I don't trust random nurseries bcus I have seen a lot of abuse cases by nanny.

I will only cook for us 3 days a week but I will cook the food for the baby almost every day bcus we need to make sure our baby eats healthy food for their brain development!

Age 35

Now we can relocate to wherever you live. I will be a housewife and willing to cook 5-6 days a week. However, I am planning to do a locum job as an embryologist or a part-time job as a financial backup for our family.

Let's make another baby after we move out! ☺️ Now our first child would be 5 years old. I want to focus on our children's growth. I believe that the children's life experience will improve when they receive love from their mother.

Age 36:

Oh it is too long to write everything here. We can discuss this later 😆

We will get along if:

We share the same life values and you are comfortable to be around an awkward smart person :)

Tell me about yourself and your life vision. I will share with you my pics if I like your answer.

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u/Cultural_teal — 8 days ago