u/Cultural-Toe5171

I (27F) have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (27M) for almost four years now and in the last couple of months I’ve been feeling like something’s missing…
I don’t know if it’s because i’ve been binging romance books or something but i wish i had that type of all consuming kind of love, the type where you know that the other person wants you and needs you in like a deep deep way and i feel like now we’re mostly stagnant and i don’t know if i ever even felt that type of connection with him..
i can’t help but feel guilty cause i know he loves me but we’re so different on so many levels and i keep being afraid that we’re going to be that type of couple that lasts together years not because of love but because it’s become a habit now..
I just want someone to excite me