Hi this is my first post so bare with I’m also dyslexic so expect no punctuation I’m sorry😭
So to give a brief story of the situation I had a pretty big friend group of Ellie, Cameron, Delilah, Susan, Isabel, Lila, Harriet and me (all fake names sorry there pretty random) most of my life I’ve only had a few friends but in the last few years me Lila Isabel and Ellie have left and joined several friend groups together for bar reasons normally ending badly
But anyway this friend group a few months ago back in November had a massive split now in two friend groups (Ellie, Cameron, Delilah in one) (Isabel,Lila, Harriet and me in the other) my new group have kinda taken a step back and realised that they were not always the best people to us me personally realising Ellie my best friend of 9 years talked shit about everyone including me about all sorts like important and stupid stuff so all of us don’t really talk anymore and Susan Lila and Delilah who were really close talk occasionally but Susan and Lila have swore up and down that they never wanna be close friends with here again and Lila has even had a go at Susan a few times for saying she misses Delilah.
Now I’ve kinda filled you in I hope it makes sense please ask for more details if you need
Cut to yesterday and I’m out with my family and Isabel texts me saying that Lila and Delilah went out together and I just got really mad and me and Isabel are talking back and forth like how can she do this it’s insanely annoying and hypocritical to Susan I find out eventually that Susan was stalking their locations and saw they were together and Harriet apparently even saw them together not sure they saw her but anyway
Does anyone have any advice I’m feeling really betrayed and I want a sort of outside perspective I have recently started seeing a therapist due to stress and anxiety from several things but also bc of the friend group issues but I don’t have an appointment till later in the week me and Isabel don’t know weather or not we should text her about it or if we should wait till we’re in a group and talk then or if that would make her feel ganged up on I’m not really looking to cut her out but more about when and how we should talk to her thanks for any advice.