u/CrypticalThinker

I seriously need to know - are heels mind blowingly painful for me because I’m very large (300+ club) or because I’m not used to wearing them? Specifically the thin pointy ones, but really anything that isn’t a platform wedge hurts so bad.

I see big women wearing heels and i have to wonder, is it a skill issue for me then? Do I just need to get used to them? Or is it just not in the cards for someone with as much mass as me (which is okay!)?

Tips for making them less painful or finding comfortable wide foot heels are also welcome!