What I wanna know is
How many people here think its necessary to stick to the emotions (when I say emotions..I mean all..)
For example take this as first scenario
You proposed to your crush just by her looks and her side which you think is good ..
She said okay and you got attached to the limit or hanging on border, where you need to see her or listen from her
But she feels the same..? Not necessarily some feel some not
Is it worth investing feelings on others like this and get hurt ...?
Second scenario : lets consider your house members
You think its also necessary to talk and maintain a relation just cause we're afraid of living by ourselves or you think its your blood and kinsmen
Isnt it a burden on ones mind to take care of others and pent up feelings and get hurt oneday by them
And their are more scenarios their if we can think
My point is why should we put ourselves for others
Sometimes they bullies us or make jokes to laugh and disrespects to look cool infront of others or so on
I feel these are not superficial in ones life,all that is important is ones own self and how they do things with their own accord....
These love,kinsmen,friends and others why would they follows you..?
Cause you're fun...? Do thus
act like they are not important.think they'll care...ofcourse you're not the only one in this world..if you're poor or not good looking did they treat you with kindness
I don't think so everything needs something in return
Trading ...this ks what I call it...' trading for benefits ' like some one talks to you ..why..? Cause you're fun and making them laugh..isn't this benifiting their sport to raise by talking
Likewise everything has it pros and cons
My conclusion is
All that important is you and yourself not others even if they're your blood..you can why I think this...I heard many blood related people fight and kill over some silly things which are resolvable...every thing follows the same
Yes emotions are emotions which you feel and how you see things...if you think its bad it'll be bad on your mind...try to accept for what it is
Well I go on and on if I don't stop now
Let hear your thoughts idc if you dont agree with me its just that i'm posting this to see your reactions on my words.