u/CriesOfTheMoon

hi

i'm wondering if any transfem has experiences trying to get dutasteride/finasteride here?

i managed to get my old hausarzt to prescribe it to me ONCE only because he was also using it but i can't see him anymore and my new doctor isn't convinced when i ask.

i know you can get it online but it's apparently a war crime to prescribe these meds to women so like sonshaar demand to know "the name of the male patient" or they refuse to send you the medication, and dokteronline prescribes dut only after a "consultation for the prostate". i'm afraid it causes issues if you have a female name/legal gender change

hi everyone. im usually not comfortable revealing personal info on the internet but im going to be completely candid.

27 years old trans woman. i suffered a lot of abuse in the asylum system and even though it was almost a year ago now, i'm still dealing with the consequences and i haven't been able to move on at all. and as im sure everyone knows these days it's practically impossible to see a therapist or a psychiatrist.

i dropped out of my integrationskurs, started isolating more and more, and now that the weather is nice and everyone is going outside with their loved ones im noticing myself becoming agoraphobic and paranoid in public. i shy away from making friends because nobody needs the extra negativity in their life from talking to an abused person in crisis.

i'm really not heading in a healthy direction and i want to start working on getting better. i feel like i need some sort of genuine social contact to keep my mental health. so, im asking for recommendations for safe social spaces in Darmstadt and the surroundings, preferably trans* only, ND/AuDHD friendly. i know about vielbunt, the oetinger villa and the meeting there, i went once but i felt very out of place, and like i was coming from a very different place in life and wouldn't be understood. maybe it was just my bad headspace making me feel that way, but still, i'm open to any and all other suggestions as well.

thank you