u/Cosmic_Berry039

Pata hai aaj kya hua.. I randomly met this guy at a shop my dad’s been taking me to this week, and I swear I have not felt this intrigued by someone in SO long 😭

I’ve seen him like 3 times already because of errands, and every single time he’s been so gentle, calm, and just… sweet? Not in an obvious flirty way, but something about him feels different. I've got one last chance, after that the work would be dont I cant see him again, ( unless i delibrately make an excuse).

The problem: I knew NOTHING about him.

So naturally, I went full FBI mode:

Tried checking the UPI QR code for his name… turned out it belonged to some merchant account 💀

Tried getting him to call me when the work was done… my dad gave HIS number instead 😭 he later asked me again while writing down another reciept.. but I couldnt dare to give my number, I actually froze.. and my dad did his job..

Finally, my dad casually asked his name, so now I at least know that.

Went through the shops instagram page, but its an all India brand so nothing specific about fhis store or him...

Now I’m sitting here wondering… how do I (normally, not creepily) find out more about him.. and i kinda wanna be his friend, sooo any ideas

For context: I do NOT trust men easily, and I usually get put off by dominating energy fast… but this guy felt genuinely soft, respectful, and cute, and now my brain refuses to move on. Maybe I coupdnt afford a relation but hes driving me insane . Dying out of curiosity..

Please tell me your best harmless detective tips… or tell me I’m being delusional 😂

u/Cosmic_Berry039 — 9 days ago

I've bought this saree in a Chennai shopping mall (it's also available online on some sites) and now I'm wondering how I should style it if I want to wear a sleeveless blouse (and open pallu). It's for my sister's reception. This is my first time wearing a sleeveless blouse with a saree.

thought of having the same blouse as the model, but then I wonder what my jewelry should be like.

If I try for a regular deep blouse for the body, my tailor suggested it would look like a DIY-stitched inner wear and be vulgar.

I am totally stuck and the date is approaching. Please share your ideas and help me slay

Every time I wear a blouse, I feel the side bulges are making me awkward. How do I get rid of such a thing?

Also will there be spillage from the armpit hole? Any suggestions on that??

u/Cosmic_Berry039 — 11 days ago