u/Correct_Worry_8810

Throwaway because my main could lead back to me and I just wanna scream all this into the void. I have been with my husband for 7 years, married a year and a half. Three weeks ago I found him messaging a coworker flirty things and confronted him and he admitted that they had kissed. I felt devastated but was allowing him to convince me that it would end there and that he was not at fault. I tried to trust him and build things back but I fear the damage was already done then. Last week we discussed an open relationship, and in classic fashion it went so south. He started seeing the same girl he kissed every single day, making me feel crazy for asking him to just do something with me instead of go see her. Yesterday morning we had the talk about separation, I feel so numb. I know that I should have just called it quits when I found out he kissed her but I think the sunken cost fallacy of it all tried to convince me that we had hope and strength. Thanks for listening