unprotected sex after a year on the pill
me and my girlfriend have been dating for three years now. she was on birth control (gestodene and ethinyl pills) from january last year to the very end of april. not quite sure on the date, but surely not before may 1st.
we had sex yesterday night. we like kinky stuff, so it was, like, 3 minutes of penetration, 10 of something else, 3 again. i made sure to pull out by the second i felt i was close to ejaculating. by close i mean way before. as soon as i felt that it was going to happen if i kept going. i have severe ocd and i can't really have sex without overthinking all the fucking time.
this is the first time we had sex in a month or so, and i don't plan on risking ever again.
anyway, she said she was feeling horny this whole week, after about for months of nothingness. she said she could be ovulating just because of this. the first day she told me this was tuesday this week (may 5th), so 4 days after stopping the pill at most.
i'm not quite sure if this helps by any means, but gemini asked me if i urinated after my last ejaculation. yes, it was over 24 hours ago, and i urinated multiple times.
it's probably a dumb question and i know it must be ocd doing it's thing. i just want a little reassurance.
EDIT: i know the chance still exists. i just want to know if it's high enough to actually do something about it. i don't want to panic like the last time, and i believe she doesn't either.