I’ve been building a friendship for about 2 months. When we hang out, it feels really good - we vibe, it’s fun, and there’s a kind of emotional closeness. Conversations flow easily and I always leave feeling positive. my body is also usually relaxed.
The issue is: they dont often initiate meetups and there's almost no contact or texting in between meetups. They always say yes when I reach out, but they don’t really create much contact themselves.
i feel like if after 2 month and getting already connected it doesnt happen naturally that we involve each other in our daily lives more - it never will, and for me it's also draining when its so personal when we hang out but then not consistent. i started wondering if i should invest more energy in it.
At what point do you accept that this is just the level of connection it’s going to stay at?