I regret my adoption :/
The title says most of the issue. I feel sad to even be writing this out. Back in November, my partner and I adopted a cat. He is allergic, and we decided to do a foster-to-adopt situation just to make sure it’s a compatible living situation. We adopted this adorable 1 year old girl who is so sweet and fun. But his allergies have not improved and he’s miserable around the house. We have done the Purina allergen food, allergy sprays, air filters, he’s done medication and nasal sprays… none of it has worked. He’s constantly got itchy eyes and skin. His insurance won’t cover shots.
At the same time, I think she really needs a companion. I work 9-5 and we don’t let her sleep in the bedroom due to his allergies. I think she’s lonely and needs a friend to help get her energy out. We can’t get another cat cuz my partner can barely handle the one we have. I feel bad with how miserable he is and also worry for his health.
I also miss the flexibility my schedule had before getting her, and am not saving much $$ right now.
The shelter didn’t have a foster-to-adopt program, but said they had a “no questions asked” return policy if things didn’t work out. I am thinking of finding a new home for her with friends or returning her to the shelter but honestly both options break my heart as I have gotten pretty attached to her. I want everybody involved in this situation to have a positive outcome, though. I don’t know what to do.