I’m 35 years old. I’ve been in Networking since I was 23, and for the last decade, I’ve specialized in Network Security. I hold certifications from Fortinet, Palo Alto, Mikrotik, Aruba, and Scrum, among others. To be blunt: my resume is solid. I’ve worked internationally and led massive projects, from large-scale hospital networks to sports stadiums.
From July to November 2025, I worked as an independent consultant for a specific firm. On November 2nd, with two major projects still in progress, they terminated my contract. I had solved their implementation hurdles and improved their security posture, but I was out.
This was the beginning of a living nightmare.
I didn't have substantial savings. I started applying immediately, LinkedIn, job boards, everything. But December is a dead month for bureaucracy, and January/February are vacation months in my region. I applied to over 15 roles for which I was perfectly qualified. Zero calls.
I live in a small country (population under 5 million). In March, local interviews finally started. I went through grueling 4-stage processes for both private and government roles. In my country, the government is obsessed with high-level University degrees (Systems Engineer), which I don't have, I hold a tertiary technical degree in Telecommunications.
The irony? In my career, I’ve executed over 140 projects, 50 of them for public entities. I’ve seen firsthand that a "Systems Engineer" title doesn't necessarily equate to actual knowledge of networking or cybersecurity. I was discarded by the state solely for lacking the "right" piece of paper.
The International "Ghosting" Phase
I shifted to international remote roles. Five foreign companies contacted me specifically for my niche certifications and experience. I passed everything:
- Initial Recruiter screenings.
- HR interviews.
- Intense 1-hour technical evaluations (diagramming, troubleshooting, live labs).
- Even recording "intro videos" about my trajectory.
In every single case, I received glowing feedback from the engineers. And then... silence. Not even a rejection email. Just total, unprofessional ghosting after hours of my time.
The Breaking Point
By today, May 4th, I was at the end of my rope. I was broke. My parents had been helping me with their own savings, and that money was literally running out this month. Rent, loans, food, it was all about to collapse. I was in a mental "hell" I wouldn't wish on anyone, even considering leaving the industry just to survive.
The Turnaround
Today, I received a call. I was hired as an Information Security Consultant for a major government agency. I wasn't their first choice, I was second, but the first candidate backed out.
When I went to my parents' house to tell them, they cried harder than I did. They told me, "It wasn't about the money, we were worried for your mental health."
I’m writing this because I want anyone currently in that dark place to know one thing: do not abandon hope. Even as I type these words, the relief is so overwhelming that I haven’t even been able to cry yet to let it all out, though I know that moment will come.
The market is brutal. The ghosting is disrespectful. The "degree-inflation" is real. But keep pushing. You only need one "Yes" to change everything.
Note: English is not my native language (I'm a native Spanish speaker). I used AI to help me translate this and ensure my story was clear, as I wanted to share this message as accurately as possible.