u/Cool_Ground5637

I used to be a really insecure person but lately I’ve gotten a lot more comfortable with myself. Worried Im gonna fall back into that state tho. A while ago my boyfriend said he hates his natural hair because long curly hair is really ugly, and thats exactly how mine looked. So I ended up cutting it and straightening it. The fact that he seemed to love my new hair so much more than how it looked before was kinda a blow to my confidence. And another thing, he’s talked a few times about weight and about how having more fat in certain areas is horrible or a curse. It makes me look at myself and wonder if he thinks those parts of me are gross too, or if I should also think that way about those parts myself. I’m not telling him this because I want him to be open about his insecurities with me, and I really don’t wanna make it about me. It’s just something I’ve been thinking about a lot lately.