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In psychology avoidant personalities tend to attract Anxious-Preoccupied personalities.

How can a person( me ) better understand this dynamic while tending to questions, concerns and the emotional needs of both parties?

I find my approach to be fairly callous while also feeling overwhelmed by the pure contrast in traits. What helps you overcome this stark contrast while maintaining a level of sincerity?

How can I be more present composed for people under heighten states of anxiety? Sometimes I feel as though I just might not be doing enough to support these emotionally varied personalities or even too much hence my inquiry.

All responses are welcomed.

Thank you