I’ve been dating this guy for about 4 months. I’ve seen him a total of 4 times. He’s very consistent with checking in daily but mostly texting maybe once a week a phone call. <\~\~\~
On our second time that he “invited me over” he ask to borrow 200$. Yes…not a good choice on my behalf but he promised to get it back to me the very next day!
He told me he has to go to the bank to take out money and it’s hard with his work schedule because he just can’t go to the ATM? <\~\~ What??? That part right there!!!
It’s been three months since he borrowed the money and at the time of asking for it he said he would pay me the next day.
I have brought it up twice and he lashed out on me saying that I’m judging his character over 200$?
Wait what??
Then he told me I’ll get you your money and just remember it’s over because of your choice to make this about money?
Am I losing it or is this totally some form of manipulation? May I add he works in law-enforcement.