Neighbor of 15 years exploded on me while I was grieving, now throwing things over my fence trying to hurt my dog
I need some advice because I'm honestly at a loss here.
I've lived next to this guy for 15 years. In that time I've been nothing but a good neighbor. I've fixed every vehicle he's ever owned. I keep to myself, I'm quiet, I have three large dogs that are well behaved and don't sit outside barking. I mind my business completely.
About a month ago I lost my oldest dog. I was devastated. I went for a walk to clear my head and my neighbor calls me over — "hey, you got a minute?" I wasn't rude, I just told him I wasn't feeling well and asked if we could talk another time. That's it. I went inside.
A week later he starts throwing rocks at my fence while my dog is outside, knowing it would agitate the dog and get my attention. It worked. I came out and he says he needs to talk. I told him calmly, "XXXXX I just don't want to talk right now, I will later, I promise." His response? "It's always fucking later with you, you fucking piece of shit. Who the fuck do you think you are?"
I said nothing. No reaction. Walked away.
Since then he's been throwing things over my fence, apparently trying to harm my dog. I'm beyond done.
Before any advice on calling the Police, that has been done.
If we are lucky we see the Police out here twice a year. Everytime I drive my car as of late I end up seeing one.
I understand that there might be a little jealousy going on but this is not high school. I can't just go over and knock them out or anything like that it's not worth it number one. He's delusional He thinks he's going to work every year in the winter on drilling rigs but he's in his 70s and it's probably not going to happen I just was there for Christmas dinner but I'm not prepared to be the adult in this situation because of what he has tried to do to my dogs.That's done that door is closed and I'm quite angry. These meatballs I'm finding I've done all the right steps and contacted who needs to be contacted. Unless they're caught doing it, absolutely nothing can be done I am looking for some help please. DM me I don't want this post taking down and willing to
Thank you
Oh yeh security cameras been done that road.