u/ConsequenceNo9084

I am 21F and I have tons of girl friends reaching out saying they want to go out or want to get lunch or something, but then they just ghost me for weeks? I understand I’m a little weird but I’m very kind I’m just on the spectrum and it really makes me sad that no one wants to be my friend and hangout with me. Like last week these 3 girls were saying “omg let’s go to the club on Thursday” and we completely planned it all for them to ghost me for the 5 days leading up and it really is hurtful they probably don’t mean harm in it but I just want to know how the fuck to make friends at this age???? I’m pretty, I’m smart, I have tons of hobbies I love to share, I am welcoming and listen to people +ask questions like wtf am I doing wrong :( it’s embarrassing almost and it makes me ashamed to be alive in a way becaue everyone has tons of friends and I just haven’t hung out with anyone in weeks because of my issue.