u/Connect-Bass4010 — reddlx

I am what i woudl say a moderately religious person, I do not do what is not allowed in Islam. I have bene to umrah several times Allhamdulilah. However, I have fallen in love with a man who is an athirst, but by birth a Hindu. The man is a breeze, he keeps me happy - never interfered in my religious practises, always pushe dme to be better human and do better in my career, supports me when ever i need it. I have been dating him for 10 years now (i do not know eher ethe time flew - beleive mw when i tell you this)
I was in the lowest of my lives when I found him and he quite literally pulled me out of it unknowingly and made life beautiful. Now m gonna be 30 and I want to marry and so does he. Him and his family have no issues, they are happy to welcome me the way I am, however my family is not very happy.
I do not want him to do something that he doesnt want to do but my heart is so torn! I love my faith I love Allah, even during my Umrah I have asked him to make things easy for us if its meant to be or pull us apart, buts somehow things have been just easy for us!
If i marry him in the court style I am in a non halaal marriage as per Islam, what do I do?? Is there a hadith I have missed which approves this??? Is there soemthing I can do? just help me sort my life.