u/Confident_Reason7249

My Bestfriend 21F is in an abusive relationship and has been for over a year and it constantly keeps getting worse. he smashes her things, breaks things in her apartment unit, beats her, chokes her and has harmed her animals before. she has been kicked out if two places before because of the fights with him. She is on Odsp for her Bpd and he is on Ow at the moment. she has a dog and 3 cats. her parents pay whatever leftover rent and stuff that she cant. He controls her money, he tells her what she can and cant do. even if she is trying move her bedroom around it causes a situation. he has cheated on her multiple times. he has also done this multiple times with other girls in the past. she keeps telling me she wants break up but he wont let her he refuses to leave when stuff happens but then when its over shes back to being brainwashed. she says shes not ready to see him leave or get arrested but hes literally attempting to kill her. and the other day she seemed like was at her breaking point and was said she was done. but then the other day she found out she was pregnant two months along. her parents told her already that if she gets pregnant they arent going to to be funding her anymore. and she seems to believe hes going to step up and believing his manipulation again. she isnt telling anyone only me until she wants to. but i genuinely dont know what to do. im her only support person. if i do something to get involved she will definitely cut me off and then she will have no one. i am so worried i genuinely don’t know what to do.