24(F) I recently had an injury while gymming which lead the curve in my spine to straighten. And i have been trying ice pack, then heat pack, basic stretching for 2 weeks which did not help so i went for xray 3 days ago i got to know abt this straightened spine thing.
I could not tell my family except my mom that injury was caused by an exercise in gym since they will then make scene about how gym is not good for me ( happened before) . I told my father and grandparents that i slipped on bathroom floor hence the injury. Anyway i went to orthopedist today and he prescribed 7 days physiotherapy and some muscle relaxants which i told my family when they asked, now my dad lectures me about that i should do few stretches HE will tell me and should not go to physio coz apparently he has seen more of the world than me( his statement) and when i refused he and my narcissistic grandmother start lecturing that
“Is umar mei hi doctoron ke chkr mei mat pdho, dvai mt khao humein pta h kese hote h yeh pese banane h bs and all”
English: don’t go to doctor at this age you should not take medicines at this young age
When I ignored he started taunting me that there are 3 types of people 1. Who learn from elders 2. Who learn from books 3. Who want to struggle and learn( dhake kha kr sikhne wale) and am the 3 rd one.
I was like wtf I am not enjoying the pain or visiting the doctor? I tried to fix at home itself for 2 fucking weeks.
And its always been like this with my dad he ignores his health and similarly he wants me to do that lol? Like literally he has cusp in an artery or something and a stone in kidney and he doesn’t want to do anything about it?
All this man knows is to just let out his anger on his wife and children whenever he has some issue in his office he is insulted or something and whole house mood is ruined coz apparently his male ego only works at home, I always have to walk on eggshells every fuvkin day to talk acc to his mood . And he acts like he knows it all like spending 28 more years than me on earth made god gave him an MBBS degree in his hands that he knows everything about medicine and treatment.
I am so fucking tired of this shit and the worst thing is i have to stay at home for 2 more years coz my post graduation college is just 10 mins away from home.