Hey everyone,
I’m about 3 weeks out from a breakup and have been in no contact for around 15 days now. The breakup wasn’t toxic no arguments or drama at the end, it kind of just faded into logistics and then silence. We did end on good terms, like when she broke up with me we ended up hugging and kissing I saw her two times after that within a week bringing our stuff to each other I tried talking about continuing our relationship but it didn’t work, after that I unshared our locations and started no contact.
I didn’t chase, didn’t send emotional messages, and haven’t been active on her social media at all. I’ve been focusing on myself gym, routine, staying disciplined, etc.
My plan right now is to reach out around May 14th with something simple, and get a hangout. She said I can reach out in a month when we broke up and that she doesn’t want this to be last time she sees me. My goal isn’t to force anything, but I’d be open to reconnecting and seeing if things could build again. A few things I’m wondering:
Does this timing make sense, or should I wait longer?
If she responds, how do I avoid coming off as needy or rushing things?
If she doesn’t respond, do I just leave it there completely?
Also, for context, she was the one who ended things.
Appreciate any honest advice.