u/ConditionBoring7126

This morning I had to watch my girlfriend drag herself into work despite all the pain she was facing. I promise I’m not trying to be a “pick me” but I do feel really bad for women that go through bad period pains and still have to show up to work otherwise they will not get paid…

What do you guys think?

I am 25 years old, making $45,000 a year after tax in tech Sales. I pay $900 a month for rent and have no car. I am in debt of $7000 from a medical bill. I have a girlfriend where we split things 50/50. I am confident young man who likes speaking with people, creative and loves sales.

What are some steps I can take to be financially free by 30?

Me and my girlfriend have been living together for 1.5 years now, our sex was great at the start, but has slowly fizzled out. We last had sexual intercourse 3 months ago , and sexual intimacy is probably max twice a week. Now the reason for this is due to her sometimes getting thrush (with and without condoms). It’s really hard for me as I have a high sex drive. (Forgot to mention that she also has low libido)

We have had multiple conversations about it, but I can see she now feels pressure and I do understand it is psychologically hard for her to get to that place of wanting to do the act.

I do see a future with her and want to get married to her, but how can I navigate this situation?

I (27) and my girlfriend (26) have been together for 2 years and have lived together for 1.5 years. When would you say is the right time to propose? A lot of people wait till they have their finances in check or are just waiting for the right time… is it too soon to propose?