Ladies, can I get recommendations for OBGYNs that actually care about pain management?
I'm looking for an OBGYN that would offer actual pain relief for things like IUDs and biopsies, not just a couple barf bags and a "take two tylenol when you get home".
The last time I was an an OBYGN I was left laying on an exam table after and IUD insertion, repeatedly passing out, shaking violently, and filling two barf bags while the OBGYN and her assistant dinked around on their phones and chatted like I wasn't there while just waiting for me to stop. There was nothing more than an occasional hand on my shoulder and assurances that "this is normal".
While I'm overdue for a routine visit, I never want to be in a situation like that again, with my clearly extreme pain so utterly dismissed. Do any of you have an OBGYN to recommend that you know would never do that?